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Rank: Star Member  Groups: Registered
Joined: 11/25/2009 Posts: 2 Location: United Kingdom
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Okay, so here's the deal.
My name's Poppy and I'm 20 years old. I have my own flat but the thing is my ex boyfriend is still living in it with me. It is my flat but I would never kick him out as I feel mean. I am getting my own place soon. But here is the other thing, he doesn't know it yet in fact he doesn't even know that we're not together. I never kiss him or do anything with him and we don't even sleep in the same bed. We broke up a couple of month ago but he asked me back out about a month ago and I just sed yes as I missed having a boyfriend but I just dont love him anymore.
Now here's the really complicated part.. I have met someone really nice. We are seeing each other and it is going great, I have only known him for 2 weeks now but he really seems like a great guy and I don't want my ex ruining it, and I keep making excuses about why he can't come to mine. He knows my ex still lives in my flat but he doesnt know that my ex still thinks we're kind of together.
I know I have to tell the ex but I was with him for 2 years and he is obsessed with me! He just cries when I try to break up with him and I don't know what to do. I just want my life back I want to be able to invite the guy I'm seeing over and watch movies together and stuff like normal people. My ex ruined my life for a while and I never got to do anything or go out and I really like this new guy I just don't know what to do.
Please help! xLove Poppy xoxo
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Rank: Star Member
Groups: Registered
Joined: 11/30/2009
Posts: 2
Location: merseyside
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Ride it out - maybe things will work themselves out in time email soccerit@btinternet.com
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Rank: Star Member
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Joined: 12/1/2009
Posts: 5
Location: wokingham
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Well i have sort of had the same thing, where this guy thought i was interested in him and so he texted me all the time and msned me and he got really upset everytime i said i didnt want to be with him and then he wouldn't send me messages or text me and then next thing i new he was texted me and sending me messages a few days later asking me out.
and so i have deleted him on msn and i dont answer his texts
and he has stoped now, i think what u might have to do is just sit him down and tell im you have met this great guy and you are really into him and see how he takes it then ask him if he would move out!
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Rank: Constellation Member
Groups: Registered
Joined: 6/2/2009
Posts: 11
Location: Universe
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You have to end it no matter how hard it is for him. It's your life and if you dont then you'll be stuck like that for longer than you think.
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Rank: Administration
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Joined: 5/15/2009
Posts: 8
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Hi Poppy,
You definitely have to end it no matter how many tears are involved. Break ups are always hard, but once the hard part goes away, you're able to move on and lead a new chapter of your life.
It's been some time since you originally posted this, so maybe you can tell us what ended up happening?
Kelly
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